Friday, June 12, 2015

5 reasons it isn’t your wife’s fault that you use porn

As someone who used to watch a lot of porn, I have the utmost compassion for men who are really struggling to quit and can’t seem to find the willpower to do so.  I love talking with and helping blokes like this.

That said, when I’m writing and speaking about the subject of pornography, I occasionally run into men who really believe their wives are the source of the problem.

These men, I have less respect for.

Please don’t misunderstand me.  The struggle against objectification and lust is a fight most men face.  If you are striving with all your heart to be a better man to your bride, I’m in the same boat as you.

But if you are more interested in justifying your porn use by shifting the blame, this article has been written to set you straight.  I don’t write it as someone who thinks he’s in anyway above you.  As Saint John Paul the Great wrote: "every man’s heart is a battlefield between love and lust."  The reason I’m going to be extremely frank in this article is because sometimes nothing less than unvarnished truth will wake us up to reality.

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